Questions and Answers
Ones horoscope really does impact their romantic relationships, sometimes more than we are even aware of. With the right compatibility, a love life can ignite all others areas of life, and with a more lacking compatibility romantic needs may not be met, breeding frustration, contempt, and unhappiness. Thus, most people have some serious questions where love are concerned.
Sheila: My boyfriend and I have been together for quite some time and in the beginning we could not get enough of each other. Romance, grand gestures, laughing, giggling, and we just couldn’t spend enough time together. Now, he seems to have grown distant although he says that he could not be happier. Could this be an issue that could be explained with horoscope?
Answer: This could definitely be related to the compatibility of your signs. Since you did not mention your signs specifically, I can’t tell you for sure, but there are many signs of the horoscope that jump in with both feet that are very sexual, sexual, and romantic and then after a time this fades a bit and they are content to just be with the other person. Depending on what your sign is, you may be one that continues to have these same urges for the duration of a relationship. It’s also important to remember that for most couples, regardless of signs, after the first few months the “honeymoon” period is over. You have gotten to know one another, much of the mystery is gone, and now real life has had to seep into the relationship. Consider this as you talk to your boyfriend about your concerns, and remember that horoscope signs are not set in stone, rather they are a trend. The two of you will ultimately determine how this relationship will unfold.
Jonathan: My girlfriend doesn’t seem to be as attracted to me as she used to be. Is that because we are not compatible?
Answer: Her perceived lack of attraction to you could be due to a wide variety of things. It could be that she is not feeling very sexual lately, that she is feeling self conscious of her looks, or perhaps she has lost interest in the relationship. It could be a compatibility issue if you are of signs that are not compatible long term, but it’s important to remember that the two of you can determine where your relationship goes, your astrological signs do not. Regardless of signs, the best bet would be to talk to your girlfriend about what is going on.
Tricia: I found out my boyfriend has been cheating on me. A friend who is very into astrology said I should have known because of his sign. Can you tell who will cheat based on their sign?
Answer: There are some signs that have a tendency to cheat more than others. However, astrological signs are simply guides that will help you see trends in ones behavior based on their month and day of birth. Astrological signs do not take away the knowledge of what is right or wrong, or an individuals responsibility to act in a respectful way toward others that they are in any type of relationship with. It’s important that no one blames their sign or that you should be made to feel like you should have known better because of a sign, because human will can always overcome any trends in a horoscope.
Margaret: I am incredibly drawn to a man that I work with. I found out that his sign is most compatible with my sign. Could this be the reason I am so drawn to him?
Answer: The signs that are known to be most compatible with one another are that way because they compliment each other so much. When you have a meeting of the minds and he really seems to be the yin to your yang, chances are that you are drawn to him because he is astrologically compatible for you. Of course, this doesn’t mean that you are a match made in heaven, rather it means that you will be incredibly drawn to one another and a relationship could work out so long as you have similar views and goals in life.
Travis: My girlfriend gets along really well with my best friend, and sometimes I feel like there is an attraction there that doesn’t exist between her and me. We were talking about astrology yesterday and I realized that the two of them are most compatible astrologically. Does this mean that her and I will never have the connection that they do?
Answer: Astrology is a powerful indicator of who will get along well, and who will not. Yet, it does not mean that it will be an excuse for one to become romantically involved with another. If you step back and look at the situation you might find that they enjoy the company of one another as friends. If you believe that they may be romantically involved you may need to examine your relationship more closely and determine if, astrology aside, this is a relationship that you are willing to stay in if the feelings are not reciprocated.
Jason: When my girlfriend and I got together we enjoyed a very passionate relationship. Yet, now my attraction to her just isn’t what it used to be. I still like her a lot and feel friendly toward her, but in terms of romantic feelings, they just aren’t there. Could this be an astrological issue?
Answer: In short, it could be. Many signs are drawn together initially, and enjoy a very passionate relationship, but then over time they tire of one another and the flame dies away. While this could be related to the compatibility of your signs, you might want to really look closely at what you are thinking and feeling and what you want from a relationship. These things may have changed since you first met, contributing a lack of romantic interest in your girlfriend.
Weekly Horoscope
Christopher: Every year for the past 12 years, this next week has been horrible. I am almost afraid to get out of bed this year because I just can’t take it anymore. When I can look back at the last 12 years and find that one week is always terrible, it’s got to be “in the cards” astrologically speaking, right?
Answer: Maybe. There is no doubt about it that astrology affects every sign in unique and extraordinary ways. The alignment of the stars at any particular time can influence your actions and reactions, which can lead to good and bad experiences. Yet, there is also something else that you should consider: self fulfilling prophecies. In many instances when something repeats itself a couple of times we begin to expect it. If you are expecting to have a bad week, you will have a bad week. Instead of going into the next week assuming that bad things are going to happen, assume that only good things are going to happen. Set up time every day to do something nice for yourself and see if this doesn’t change your 12 year bad luck streak.
Cheryl: Does my astrological sign really dictate how my week will be?
Answer: Reading your weekly horoscope is a great tool. The good news is that if you have a weekly horoscope that doesn’t look all that great, everything is open to your free will. The horoscope is just based on trends, the alignment of the stars, and the like. If you don’t like what your weekly horoscope says, work to change it! Your horoscope is based on trends, so remember that you are always able to change the trends in your life.
Nancy: Is my astrological sign responsible for my depressed mood over the last week? I just cannot seem to shake it.
Answer: Our astrological signs definitely play a role in our emotional status. Of course, there may be outside sources of stress that are contributing to your tendency to be a bit down. Because you are aware that you feel so down, do something nice for yourself every day until you feel better.
Kevin: My girlfriend seems so distant over the last week, could it be the conflict that exists between our signs this week?
Answer: It’s important to remember that our astrological signs play a part in everything that we do, even if we don’t realize it. Now that you know it’s a trend to feel distant during this time, make attempts every day to do something nice for her to show that you can overcome the distance. Astrological signs do not overcome free will, so be sure to buck the system and keep your relationship healthy this week.
Natalie: Is my weekly horoscope really able to predict how my week will go?
Answer: Yes and no. A horoscope is basically based on trends that are determined by your sign and what is going on in the stars. Since its beginning, astrology has been all about notating trends for signs as well as particular times during the year and the way that different planets interact. These trends are quite strong and predictable, but your free will over rides anything that you will find in your horoscope, so don’t be afraid to buck the system and make every week exactly what you want it to be.
Ellen: How exactly is my weekly horoscope able to determine if my finances are going to suffer this week? I don’t get it.
Answer: Your weekly horoscope is based on hundreds of years of data including the way the planets interact and the way they affect the general personality of your sign. Over the years the trend has been for your sign to face financial difficulties during this week. That being said, it doesn’t mean that you necessarily have to have financial problems, it just means that you should be aware of all financial situations you are making so you make the best ones every time.
Tabitha: It seems like my horoscope never really applies to my personality or the things that are going on in my life. Why?
Answer: There are the rare individuals, who despite their sign, do not fit the typical behavioral patterns that others do. Remember that astrology is not 100% accurate for every person, every time. It’s based on patterns and trends that have been recognized over time. Some people have more will to be their own person and do their own thing despite their astrological sign, which can be a good thing!
Adam: For my entire life it seems that the astrological sign that comes after mine applies more to my personality and what is going on in my life than mine. Is there a reason for this?
Answer: Perhaps. Many people are born on the cusp of an astrological sign. This means that you may share characteristics of one sign or the other, or both. If you feel that you identify more with the sign that follows yours, then by all means read the weekly horoscope for both signs. All it can really do to look at both is teach you more about yourself, and generally speaking, that is a good thing.
Bryan: I have always been a bit skeptical about astrology and horoscopes, but a friend really turned me onto it. Is my weekly horoscope something that I really can rely on for some insight?
Answer: Absolutely. Every person needs to determine exactly how much they allow their horoscope to impact their life. Many people find that it is very enlightening to see behavioral patterns, or even patters in their personality when there are changes in the stars. It’s just important to remember that nothing is set in stone that just because your weekly horoscope says something doesn’t mean that it needs to be. You need to decide exactly how you will interpret the meaning of your horoscope and how you will apply what you learn to your life as this is a very personal choice. Take some time to read your horoscope and think about what it says, you may be surprised by just how accurate it is.
Monthly Horoscope
The monthly horoscope is meant to be a tool to give people of every astrological sign a heads up about what the planets are doing over the course of the upcoming month, and how this movement could possible impact ones day to day life. Every individual will need to decide just how much of a tool their horoscope is for them, and how it applies to their life. Some use their monthly horoscope as a tool to take advantage of opportunities and avoid pitfalls, and some view it more as a form of entertainment.
Kira: Whenever I read my monthly horoscope I tend to get so tied up in the possible negative events or tendencies that I can’t seem to focus on the positive aspects of my horoscope. Should I just stop looking at it?
Answer: Reading your horoscope is a tool, not a definitive prediction of how your month is going to go. You may be taking your horoscope as a premonition of how your month has to go. Rather, it is there as a tool that will help you avoid common pitfalls and also see opportunities. Don’t assume that the negatives have to come true, rather look at them as an opportunity to buck the system. Your free will can over power the tendencies of your astrological sign.
Peter: How can my horoscope be written for the entire month if it hasn’t happened yet? How can it possibly be accurate that far out?
Answer: Astrology really is quite amazing and highly accurate because it is based on hundreds of years of observations and trends. Over time it has been noted how the movement of the planets affect each sign for a period of time. Because this has been documented, it is rather simple to predict the challenges and opportunities that each sign will be presented with over the course of the month. While accurate, it’s important to remember that nothing is set in stone. Just because trends for your sign suggest something does not mean that you have to allow it to be a self fulfilling prophecy.
Chance: Sometimes I am almost afraid to read my monthly horoscope because it seems like all of the negative aspects of it come true. Maybe I should just stop reading to avoid this problem?
Answer: This is actually quite common. This happens because as human beings we like to know that there is a plan, we want to know what to expect. Except, this is not the way that astrology works. Your horoscope is based on what can generally be expected for your sign because of the movement and the alignment of the starts during the upcoming month. Does this mean that your life is predetermined for the next four weeks? Absolutely not. Rather, it is a tool to help you see what challenges you may face, as well as what opportunities may present themselves. Don’t look at your horoscope as a prediction, rather look at it as a tool that will help you make the most of the next month of your life.
Shannon: Why does my monthly horoscope never seem accurate?
Answer: There are a number of reasons that this could occur. First, you may have been born on the “cusp” of two signs, where you relate more to one sign than the other, so you may want to read the sign that comes right before or after yours and see if it applies to your life more. Also, some people who have a very strong spirit and don’t mind marching to the beat of their own drum may simply defy the general personality of their sign. As such, the monthly horoscope may simple not apply to you. Some people just have a difficult time seeing themselves, their personality, and the patterns and trends in their life for what they really are, which makes it difficult to relate to a monthly horoscope.
Matt: So far this month has been horrible. I wish I could go to bed and just sleep through it as it seems like it is one thing after another and I just cannot get a break. Could such bad luck, one occurrence after another, be related to my astrological sign?
Answer: Absolutely! Sometimes it really does seem like anything that can go wrong, will. Many times the cards are stacked against us astrologically, so we have to work very hard to buck the system and fight back against trends where our personalities are concerned. Remember that the best way to combat negativity and bad luck is with positive thinking. If things are hard, remember that the only direction that things can go is up. When you replace negative thinking with positive thinking suddenly everything seems much easier.
Christina: I have become a bit disenchanted with my monthly horoscope. It seems that negativity reigns supreme and even the positive parts of the horoscope can’t override the negative possibility. What gives?
Answer: Chances are that you are giving too much weight to the less and agreeable trends in your astrological future. Many people get so hung up on what might impact their life or present challenges that are not ideal. Instead of assuming that these things are going to happen because they have to, look at your horoscope as a way of preventing the challenges from taking over your life. Those who view their horoscope strictly as a prediction often find that the negativity becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. Insert more positivity into your life, and make sure that you give just as much weight to the positive trends for the upcoming month as the negative ones.
Phillip: Every year during this month I seem to suffer a lot of hardships. I’m starting to think I am cursed or something. Could this possibly be related to my astrological sign?
Answer: Most definitely. Astrology is all about noticing trends based on the alignment of the stars and your personality, which is often largely based on your astrological sign. If you find that you have a hard time during the upcoming month continually, chances are it is the alignment of the stars that is stacking the cards against you. Instead of assuming that bad things are going to happen, read your horoscope and focus on the positive aspects of it. When you give less weight to the negativity you’ll find that the possible negative events will weigh you down less. Your life is not planned out, free will is more powerful than your horoscope, so don’t be afraid to push back and enjoy your life. Get Your Horoscope Now